How to Be the Man You Always Needed
In 1925 This Was Obvious. In 2025, It’s Controversial
what makes a man?
in 2025 this is a good question.
in 1925 this is a stupid question.
so let’s talk about it.
masculinity is mocked.
traditional values are ridiculed.
weakness is praised.
women are leading relationships & wearing the pants.
young men are weak & passive.
i’m here to give you some insight on what true masculinity is.
this is a quick & easy read so if your not going to be fully focused,
fuck off kindly.
let me explain.
being a man is having a spine.
having a spine is having the courage to say no.
you have standards & you don’t care what other people think.
being a man is having balls.
your brave & you stand up for what you believe in regardless of the consequences.
being a man is being emotionally mature.
your not emotionally weak & acting impulsively.
your calm & make calculated decisions.
being a man means your formidable.
“It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.”
Sun Tzu
your capable of being dangerous.
your prepared & competent in war.
being a man is taking accountability.
understanding no one is coming to save you.
you take care of those around you.
life happens for you not to you.
good or bad it’s cause of you.
stay with me.
being a man means you carry integrity.
you keep your word & you don’t fold under pressure.
being a man means your respectful.
you treat women & children the right way.
your a gentlemen.
you have the same respect for a janitor & a CEO.
being a man means your purpose is first.
you don’t put any women or person above your God given purpose.
being a man means your God fearing.
you lead by example & faith is important.
listen.
good news is any male can become the best version of themselves.
doesn’t matter if you were raised without a father figure
or your father didn’t do the best job.
you can be this superior man your capable of being.
you can be the man your younger self always wished of having.
everything you need is already inside you.
start digging deep.
find your purpose
hit the gym
start training MMA
read self-help books
learn about female psychology
get your money up
learn a skill
etc…
do the self love work your future self will thank you for.
the best part…
you will inspire so many people around you.
it will be a domino effect & you will lead by example.
understand this.
it is your moral responsibility to turn yourself from boy to man.
you must be that figure you dreamt of having growing up.
now.
it starts today.
a few of you without a fried brain have read this far.
it’s for a reason mate.
start taking action.
imagine 10 years from now your that best version of yourself.
your strong, capable, formidable.
you know how to fight.
you know how to communicate.
your a true leader.
good things take time.
be that guy everyone turns to.
stay dangerous.
-ascendia